I Have News.

Ever since I got married, whenever I start a conversation with “I’ve news for you”, the only logical conclusion that everybody comes to is that yes, yes you guessed it correct too, whether I’m pregnant or not. Even though I would have  to admit that I had so much fun when I fooled my friends on watsapp group with the word “news”. It was highly immature of me, but nobody ever told me to take adulthood seriously.

But recently I came across in social media about how miscarriage has become a concern in today’s world that almost 4 out of 5 couple deal with miscarriage in their lives. If we look around us, there would be many who must be trying really hard to plaster a smile on their face to the outside world when actually they are dealing with the trauma of dealing with a miscarriage.

Our society is irrationally judgmental and always prying on other people’s business that we forget they are just like us with feelings and emotions. Oh, how cliché of me, I know, but think about it, the couples are always pressurized to start a “family” the moment they mark their one year anniversary and if God forbid they say they do not see themselves with kids, all hell breaks loose and the whole family and relatives would consider them anti-humans, anti-christ,anti-culture,anti-feelings and just about everything starting with anti. Also, imagine a couple is going through medical checkups and treatments in order to have a child of their own and every day somebody is breathing down your neck to know whether you are trying for an offspring or not and whether the offspring is planned or unplanned, whether the offspring is male/female and all that generic questions. Many women in fact go into depression because they blame it on themselves and the mere fact that they could not “fulfill” the wishes of the family and the society would just add to all of that. And don’t even get me started on couples who tried every option they could and in the end had surrendered to a life with just each other as a company are being constantly sympathized and abused of being childless.

And when somebody opens up about their struggle to conceive or their decisions regarding family planning, just listen and give support instead of forcing your ideas on to them. Not everybody needs a surrogate or an adoption agency to fulfill their dream of having a child. It’s all about being accepted in a society, to be treated on par and definitely not treated as someone abnormal or worst,showing sympathy.
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Guess what, we have a solution for all this! So next time someone is about to get married or is just married OR married for 5 years ORRR a long 10 years, please don’t ask them about their “kids” until and unless they decide to discuss their “kids” with you, because trust me if they have kids, they are gonna talk about them or you can just see their Facebook or Instagram to figure that out, refrain from questioning their life. And until then let’s respect everybody’s privacy and space.

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This rant is a self realizational one and if I’ve ever asked anyone about your family planning when it was clearly none of my business, if you are reading this, I’m extremely sorry. And on a side note, I’ve some news. Haha. Just kidding.