From the time I started writing my blog, there has been a few questions that many of you were curious to know about and one such question was whether I call my husband ‘ Bigshot’ in real life too. The simple answer is a No, but if you know me you will also know that I don’t give simple answers. Sorry but I’m going to elaborate on this topic. The word ‘Bigshot’ was formed from the word ‘big shot’ which means an important person, a prominent person or simply a person who feels like your boss. Why I call him Bigshot in the blog is also because of the same meaning ever since he and I started talking to each other. For instance, the first time we spoke on the phone, I felt like he was interviewing me for a job wherein he started asking me about my strengths and weaknesses, the year I passed out of school, colleges and even about my work experience. And then when I started asking him questions pretty casual, he started answering them like HE was being interviewed by me. Even though the conversation went pretty formal initially, soon I felt like he was letting his guard down. It was actually great to have had that conversation with him over the phone and we ended up speaking for a really long time that day.
When our marriage was fixed, we needed to plan many things and Bigshot always thought it’s important to fix appointments for skype calls with me. He would simply ring me up and ask me when I’ll be free for a skype call because he will have prior meetings, which is pretty normal. But what he does next after fixing a time is to send me a mail with the details regarding our frikking skype call. The number of mails I’ve received from him prior to the wedding felt like I was being tortured by a manger who expected the colleagues to have the same passion as he does about a project. One time he even sent me an excel document with the itinerary from the day of our marriage to the next one week. The excel sheet had scheduled timing for each activity with 12:00 PM to 1:00 PM placed under “The Main Event” log for our marriage function. It was the most romantic thing ever that I had witnessed. He later made me fill up the excel document with my plans and tweaks and asked me, to as he put in his words “revert back” to him with the attached excel.
So the transition from being my boss to my goofy best friend happened very slowly but it started only when I came all the way to the US after two months of our marriage. Apparently if you marry a nerd don’t expect to love them without loving their love for excel sheets, documentaries and their constant need to shove their entire head into a monitor doing coding. Now whenever he feels like making an excel sheet before our supposedly fun holiday trips, I simply ask him not to drain the fun out of it because I’ve come out of the initial shock. Now, when I started writing in the blog we were married for a year at the time, however, I never found him to be the same guy I met before the marriage but that’s my first impression of him that will never change. Now when I look back, I somehow find it adorable that he did what he did and calling him Bigshot simply makes me reminisce those times. So no, I do not call him Bigshot in real life instead I call him Vinod which is his real name and most of the times I end up calling him V because I’m that lazy to spell the actual name. YOLO!
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Author: Lakshmi Geeth
I’m an ordinarily odd person who is pleasant to talk to. When I’m not trying to be funny, I would be lying on the floor bawling my eyes out. I write weird stories, real life snippets, traumatic and dramatic memories along with doses of unsolicited advices. 🙂