You won’t believe me if I said the entire year in a person’s life can be predicted from how he spends his first half of the year. I know, you don’t believe me. That is why I’m going to talk about the patterns in which our lives have gone through and the different phases Bigshot and I had each year, so that you would finally believe me. P.S You might still not believe me at the end of it but the need to get everyone’s approval in life comes from being the second child of the family. So kindly bare with me on this one.
To make things a little more interesting (I really want to stress on the word interesting here) I would like to use Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs here to compare it with the different phases of how a couple’s life would be in terms of each passing years. The theory/prediction that I’ve come up with is named Crazy’s Hierarchy of Years and I’ll be explaining the entire hierarchical list along with the help of a diagram.
The first Diagram above represents the Maslow’s Theory and the sophisticated diagram right below it represents my theory and also my raw talent in drawing up a simple chart. You see, the first year of marriage was the year we started off with the travelling. So instead of starting from lower level to the upper level like that of the Maslow’s theory we somehow started straight from Self-actuaization period of our lives. Hence the inverted Triangle. The period in which we travelled to every single place we could go and never bothering to worry about anything else in that process including finance, time, work or energy. The Self-actualization period came to a screeching halt when the year ended in December 2015 with one such last trip. 2016 was the year we tried to keep up with 2015 and like it’s shown in the diagram we were trying so hard to be like those people from 2015. Since that year started off with us trying hard to be like us from 2015, the whole of 2016 became a year of Esteem, or how I like to put it, Year of Trying too hard. It’s a fact that we went on a few weekend trips near and close in 2016 but that’s about it. We never quite became successful in making ourselves into those outdoorsy category of humans.
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1) There is no proof of anything that’s already happened from here on.
2) And none of it has actually happened.
Even then, I would like to predict the fact that this year is going to continue being the year of Social where our entire focus will be to hover around our house and in and around our place of stay as long as possible. From the diagram you would also know that the year of Safety is near upon us. I’m hoping Bigshot and I wouldn’t come across that phase atleast for the next couple of years but with the speed and trend in which we are covering each phases, looks like 2018 is going to be the year of Safety where the couch is your best friend and leaving the home will be a unnecessary activity altogether. All I can do now is to try and post-pone the transition to a year or two before it engulfs us completely. Last but certainly not the least is the year nobody ever wants to go though but somehow transitions into with each passing time and circumstances. Psychological year is the only year I’m dreading where surviving will become the only agenda of our lives. Not only does it sound desolate but it also sounds humanly impossible to become. But hey, if you are lucky, you will break through Psychological year and start with Self-actualisation all over again. After reading this entire made-up theory, you must be thinking, “This is crazy”. Why do you think I named it Crazy’s Hierarchy of Years. 😉
Have a good day/good night! 🙂
Author: Lakshmi Geeth
I’m an ordinarily odd person who is pleasant to talk to. When I’m not trying to be funny, I would be lying on the floor bawling my eyes out. I write weird stories, real life snippets, traumatic and dramatic memories along with doses of unsolicited advices. 🙂