One of the best fights so far

Hello fellow humans, how was your weekend? Please don’t mind how I look in the post image, I was feeling rather creative with my hairstyle yesterday. Two things happened in our household this weekend that needs to be addressed and need your immediate attention.

1) Our guest cancelled on us for reasons that needs further deciphering.

2) Bigshot and I had a very constructive argument and a fight.

The weekend started off with our guest cancelling on us and I’ve a feeling they read my blog. But I don’t understand why anybody would cancel on a couple date which can be challenging as well as fun. I’m always up for new challenges. Okay, that’s a lie. I will never go to a house if I know what is awaiting for me. Anyway, Bigshot and I used up that time to ponder over our lives, the meaning of marriage and the life beyond existence. Again, that’s a lie, God,  I’ve a disease. I was laying on the bed half the day on Saturday, trying to catch up on the sleep I missed out due to Bigshot’s work crisis which started on our Friday night. Because of the work crisis, he woke up early and started frantically typing so hard on the keyboard that I could hear every click of it all the way to the room. The rest of the day felt like coming back from a hangover and after finishing the jaw-dropping finale of season 3 in Game of Thrones, we went to sleep.

Sunday morning had arrived like a bright shining day filled with rainbows, unicorns and ponies. We woke up after a ten hour long sleep only to lie down in the bed and reminisce over our almost two years of marriage. The conversation which started off casually went from marriage to the topics we had no intention of speaking about. The worst thing about recollecting and talking while in bed sans the breakfast and sans refreshing yourself is something that will take up a huge chunk of your day. Misunderstandings. Usually our fights start with so much anger that I try to walk away and Bigshot trying to make me finish off  the fight by arguing about it. Now, what happened yesterday was the perfect fight we ever had. There were arguments from both the sides. I let him finish what he had to say without rolling my eyes. And he let me finish what I had to say without zoning out. We threw our point of view at each other so magnificently , it must have looked like a tennis match between Rafael Nadal and Roger Federer. But eventually I got tired of it and our beautiful match went sour which made me take the decision to walk away from the fight by going to the bathroom. I came out of the bathroom expecting Bigshot trying to finish the argument but he didn’t. We ate our breakfast in silence like those we see in black and white movies. I started reading my boring book which I had been trying to finish off for a long time in the bedroom and he was finishing one of the online course he had started. An hour or so later, he came to the room and we both said sorry to each other, because believe it or not I had the much required space to absorb the fight and he had the time to take it slow. It’s not like we stopped arguing immediately, we made our points again and finally he accepted his mistake with a loose statement like “You should have been a lawyer.”     But the best part about this fight was that it went so smoothly that we HAD to high-five each other for our respective dealing with it. What came out of the rest of the day was that we had so much food to eat, I finished my boring book only to start with a new one, Bisghot finished his course along with the examination and we ended our day by starting another season of Game of Thrnoes.

So the key takeaways from this weekend was:

1) Never write about how bad a host you are when you are awaiting people coming over the next day.

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3) Listen to what the other person has to say even if you have a solid point against them that came into your mind right then.

4) Take a break from the fight, if needed, to attain a better evaluation of the situation in hand.

5) NEVER start a conversation in bed that can be debatable. Try talking about the blue sky, food or movies.

6) The after fight feeling may make the both of you say and do super cheesy things for the rest of the day. So cheesy that it would make you lactose intolerant. 😀

Have a fantastic week y’all! 🙂

 

Author: Lakshmi Geeth

I’m an ordinarily odd person who is pleasant to talk to. When I’m not trying to be funny, I would be lying on the floor bawling my eyes out. I write weird stories, real life snippets, traumatic and dramatic memories along with doses of unsolicited advices. 🙂

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